Condolence: Martha was Alizarin in virtual worlds, not a random choice but appropriately the name of a crimson pigment from an artist's palette. This became "Ali" to all who knew her in this environment.
She not only produced much delicate and inspiring art as Ali but also became a kind and immensely understanding friend to many, she is going to be missed on so many levels, and I personally have reasons to be very grateful that she held out the hand of friendship.
This, from her obituary, "...She is survived by .... her avatar, Alizarin Goldflake, who now resides in the electrosphere...." is very perceptive, and very true. The gift of her work persists, and will persist, in many corners of the internet and we all have cause to be grateful for that.
Condolence: I am so very sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one in death is such a difficult thing to experience. Please be comforted by the promises in the Bible. Jesus tells us at John 5:28, 29 that all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out. What a loving provision put in place by the God of all comfort so we can have the assured hope of seeing our dead loved ones live again one day. Meanwhile as I pray for that day to come I ask Jehovah God to bless your family and give each of you the strength to endure this most trying time. For more information please visit jw.org.